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'Hope will never be silent' - Harvey Milk

A couple of years ago I was given a book containing true love stories from everyday people. The more I read and as much as I loved the idea of this book, it quickly became apparent to me that the vast majority of the love stories contained in this book were between heterosexual partners. As a member of the LGBTQIA community, this saddened me.



I created this blog as a space for other members of the LGBTQIA community to post and share their stories of love. These stories are just as valid and important and have every right to be shared and viewed. Although progress is being made in the realm of LGTBQI rights, there is still a long way to go. In order to reduce the negative stigma associated with the LGTBQIA community, exposure is a must!



Despite the progress towards equality in recent years, there is still much hate and discrimination present in the world. I thought that it would be nice for people to see that despite unequal treatment that is still so common in American society, happiness is indeed possible.




Caveat: This blog was not created to "fight the man" and force equality in American society; rather these stories have been posted to give people hope that love in the LGTBQIA is right and okay. Furthermore, this blog was created to honor the stories of everyday people who are often ignored and remind people that love is the same, no matter the couple.


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** If you have a story that you'd like to share, please email me at: miatfurtado@gmail.com































Monday, September 1, 2014

Dear Michael Sam,

I wanted to take the time to thank you for your strength and courage. You dedicated your life to the sport you love and despite the known culture, you chose to honor yourself despite certain pervasive opinions.

Your sexuality should not matter. What matters is that you were the defensive player of the year in the college league and that honor speaks for itself. Your talent and ability is known around the nation.

Your declaration defied and dispelled many stereotypes and began the process of changing hearts and opening minds. You were the first of your kind to speak up and speak out and you did so eloquently and bravely.

When you were drafted to the Rams, my heart exploded for you and my faith in your sporting institution was somewhat revived. You public display of affection, though widely debated and denounced, showed the nation that it was just that: a public display of love. Not an act of violence or abuse, but rather an intimate moment between you and the one you love.

I thank you for bearing the burden of having your private life being the topic of conversation despite all the talent that you possess. I thank you for speaking your truth and becoming a role model for those to aspire and look up to. I thank you for not giving up and for challenging entrenched mentalities and beliefs.

Thank you for all that you have done and for being who you are.

Mia


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